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Charles Deemer

Editor,
Oregon Literary Review

MFA, Playwriting, University of Oregon

Writing faculty, Portland State University (part-time)

Retired playwright and screenwriter.
Active novelist, librettist and teacher.

Email: cdeemer(at)yahoo(dot)com

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The Writing Life II

(Posts archived here are from 01/10/03 - 10/31/06)

 
Tuesday, June 24, 2003  
Harriet
[from a memoir in progress, which began on 4/13/03]
I’d met Harriet less than two weeks before I entered treatment. Some months before, when I was trying to get sober on my own, I’d replied to several personal ads in a moment of intoxicated loneliness. I’d forgotten all about them by the time I got a response from Harriet, who had written one of the ads. She already had dated several men who had responded to her and apparently was working her way down the list after they hadn’t panned out.

No bells rang when we met for coffee on the day before her birthday. She headed back east to visit her sister, and I entered treatment. To my surprise, she visited me at CARS once we were allowed to have weekend visits.

We began seeing one another as friends. I was thankful to have someone in my life who wasn’t a barfly, as virtually all my friends were at this stage of my life. Harriet introduced me to some of her friends, and I began to get a sense of a social life away from the bar scene, which also was a new experience for me. Harriet, although Jewish, was shopping around for a church to get interested in, and I sometimes accompanied her, which was a very new experience for me. The last time I’d been inside a church other than for a wedding was when I’d pulled chapel duty in the Army.

Then, one night when she invited me over for dinner, the first spark of romance flashed, and our relationship took a new direction. By the time I was ready to graduate from the Dom, we’d decided to live together, and I moved in with her. Four years later we got married.

Harriet provided a solid foundation for my early years of sobriety. She made the transition far easier than it would have been otherwise by giving me a new social world to discover, a companion into activities that I’d ignored for many years or done only within the context of drinking. Without her circle of friends, and her social base, I’m sure I would have ventured back into the only social world I knew, the bar scene, especially at Seafood’s and Nobby’s. If today I can comfortably go to Nobby’s for breakfast and visit with Greg, Millie and others from the “good old, bad old days,” it’s because I’m secure in my sobriety – and Harriet played an important role in helping me attain this security. I’m not sure I could have done it without her.

In the beginning of sobriety, everything was new to me. I, sober, was new to me. I rediscovered the teenage recluse I once was and realized that when not drinking, I was not a very social person at all. I enjoyed my solitude more than I enjoyed company. As I had written in a sonnet, the inside of my head is my country. Sober, I discovered that I liked myself a lot.

As I was discovering this, I also faced a very different challenge. With Harriet, I began something very new to me – a sober relationship.

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